BROKEN HEARTS

We all have gotten our hearts broken once in our lives. Now a days it’s more often, as we all know how to fall in love, but no one teaches how to stay in love. Love is a strong word for weak hearts that fear rejection, loneliness and silence. Love is free as air. If you enjoy its pleasant cold winds, then you have to be ready for its turbulence too. Love is like that flame of fire that can give you warmth and can also burn you. No one stays with you forever. Some dies and some leave you alone, with a broken heart. The only one who would never leave you is YOU. It sounds crazy and egoistic, doesn’t it? If a person can love himself with a same passion as he loves others, who can hurt him? No one.

But what to do if you have already broken your heart? Well, first stop blaming the other person. Stop the blame game in your mind that how terrible that person was to leave you. Question yourself first; did you play your role perfectly as a lover? If you have ever done a mistake, accept it, apologize and then if things don’t get better, then move on. You can’t stay with a person who can’t forgive your mistakes. We all are imperfect and bound to make mistakes. But if you have cheated on your lover and yet want that person to forgive you then, you are simply a cheat and that person doesn’t deserve you. Now what if that person never listened to your apologies? What if that person decided to run away from you without any explanations? Do you think that person deserves you? That person simply doesn’t give a damn about you and your apologies, so move on. What if you were never at fault? The answer is quiet simple, that person betrayed you, let that person die in hell, you deserve way better. Let it go and move on.

Now the question is how to move on? Should we get into another relationship to show your ex lover how happy we are in our lives? The answer is a big NO. Then how to mend your broken hearts? Can we never fall in love? Well you can, obviously. But the first thing you need to do is fall in love with yourself. Start trusting yourself, take yourself on a date, pamper yourself, and entertain yourself. Most importantly, grow yourself. Life is too short for regrets and tears. Learn to let it go. Relationships are like sand, the more we try to hold it, the more it slips off. Don’t find your happiness in others; rather be your own happiness. Make your bucket list, do crazy things, play pranks, explore new places, work on your career. There are so many things to do in life. And then when you would be happy in your own world, may be you will meet someone, who would be able to understand the love in your anger and the silence in your laughter. This person would not teach you to love, this person would be love, and finally you would find your better half.

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